Anne Giardini, Simon Fraser University

2018 Influential Women in Business Awards Honouree 2018

I think a lot of successful women have a hard time being kind to themselves. There’s a saying I like, which is that we should try to be as kind to ourselves as a good mother would be, always.

It’s a great thing if you have a great mother, and I did. But if you don’t, go out and find them – find the friends you need, the mothering you need. An odd discovery in my 40s was that if you go to yoga, the yoga instructor kind of mothers you a little bit at the beginning and end of each class.

I had one of those wonderful childhoods. A competitive, big family – in a good way. My mother [Carol Shields] became a quite successful writer when I was growing up. My father was the dean of engineering in a university. It was an idyllic childhood, and it gave me confidence. It taught me nothing, however, about business because I didn’t hang around with business people. In fact, when I started my articling job as a young lawyer, I don’t think I’d ever been in an office before. It just wasn’t in my world.

I learned early on that if you’re curious about things and open to learning, there’s nothing that isn’t interesting. Even the right to reject non-conforming goods under the international sale of goods act; I ended up writing the most boring master’s thesis in the history of master’s theses. But it was interesting to me.

We grow up going to stores and I was always interested in what happened behind the doors. What was making this run? That gave me a deep interest in business as it happens. Whenever I see a closed door, I want to know what’s behind it.

I always thought I would write books. Isn’t that odd, because I didn’t exactly set out on that path. I’ve published two novels; I’ve written four. I think if I didn’t have a book brewing, it would remove some of my happiness. It makes me very happy to have a project like that on the go.

Law, by chance, is stories. I found when I read cases, it was like reading short story after short story. I’ve never had a dull day in the legal profession.

For me, balance is busyness. I like to be out there in the world as much as possible, as much as I can, all the time.

There’s this concept called allomother, and it’s the idea that if you run your life well, your kid doesn’t just have one mother, they have a community of mothers. I remember landing in New York a few years ago for a large, multibillion-dollar transaction, and getting a call from home that one of my children was really in serious distress, to the point where my first thought was that I have to go home. I phoned one of the allomothers and she got right on it. I still get a little weepy when I think about it because I feel that it was a crisis that I didn’t handle directly. But in fact I did handle it and it worked out fine. It was one of those moments when I felt there’s something rich here, something to be learned about creative problem solving, and being present in different ways.

My grandmother had a wonderful saying. It was, “Wherever you go, there you are.”

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